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She was so quiet. An observer more than a talker. Cautious, gentle and a bit sad.   We were hosting her through Together for Good and I’d just finished tucking her in for the night. I lingered at the edge of the […]

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Mommy hold my hand

Disney World was feeling anything but magical. The heat index was 114 and I thought I would melt right into the sidewalk. My annoyance over the oppressive heat was rivaled only by my irritation that it was …

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This is for the mom who’s not perfect

I am nailing it as a mom this week. Our fridge is empty. The pantry is a joke. My kids have eaten ramen for breakfast and lunch three days in a row. And I am …

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This is what it’s like to watch your teen face the world

The moment a child is placed in your arms, your are faced with two seemingly opposing objectives: protect her from the world and prepare her for it. Its like a cosmic scale that slowly tips …

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What you need to know about teens in short shorts

I can't think of a better place to people watch than the county fair. All God’s children show up to enjoy the exhibits and food. So do their parents and grandparents and even their dogs. …

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Why it’s time to say yes to the swim

My kids used to call out to me, “Mommy! Come swim with us!” I’d see them giggling and laughing in the water, becoming me to join in their fun. My heart ached with the want …

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Are you believing this lie about hospitality?

Anyone who’d ever stayed at Bonnie’s raved about her gift for hospitality. As I set my bags down, I quickly understood why. The guest room pulled me in like a warm hug. The bed was piled …

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Why I Treat Milestones as Altars of Gratitude

We mark the anniversary of our son’s birth and death every year on his birthday. It's our tradition to visit his grave to eat cake and let the kids send balloons to their brother in Heaven. Each …

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How to get over yourself and ask for help

I’m a ninja at turning my schedule into a game of Tetris. And I am good. Very, very good. Since I knew a two week period contained multiple long meetings and deadlines, I artfully scheduled golf …

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God is proud of you the most

My seven-year-old didn’t want any part of the piano recital. He fought me on the song choice, refused to practice and balked at my insistence that he shower and put on a decent outfit. I knew that …

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